I believe it’s an ego boost, probably like just how some girls and ladies take action. Most likely features something to perform with confirmation to the fact that they might be attractive to the opposite gender, which is a “comforting” (appears like an unusual phrase to use here, however it comes with the classification i am going for) believe (so-like, in the event the proverbial shit strike the lover, they already know that there would still be hope to find a mate.)
But ’tis speculation on my parts, I am not a dude. I recently play one in my personal avatar.
Once more, this is one of those issues which robotic in general, because it implies that ALL men believe or are identical in their needs or means.
It is a vintage and outdated belief.
Each person is significantly diffent. And so, to answer their concern will mean that i might have to focus on and study that individual.
But, instead of accomplish that. I’ll present a general answer.
come into basic, looking for ‘energy’.
This energy, being shown as interest, is really what a lot of find, so that you can become more steady or liked or recommended of, for almost all of what we as individuals find should “Feel good” about ourselves.
For most people try not to be ok with on their own or have a good self image. And, the finding of energy ( interest ) is the reason why more individuals think a tad bit more balanced or stable inside their mind.
Now, you’ll find nothing incorrect with this particular, providing you’re not attempting to ‘feed’ on you, every day, because of this may and does create aberrations also interior conflicts and will make a ‘draining influence’ from the individual that is providing this interest.
The majority of us understand of some individual that works like an “stamina Vampire”. They incorporate you within problem or show or conversation and after a short opportunity, one will start to become exhausted or emotionally tired.
Plus the reason for that is your person is literally ‘siphoning’ the powers from various other people by continuing to keep their unique interest in it and their issues. This might be a type of ‘energy thieves’.
You can study about it by reading a novel also known as: “The Celestine Prophecy”.
Since there are numerous kinds of ‘energy manipulation/theft’.
1. The intimidator: the one who makes one throw in the towel your power by threatening or intimidating one.
2. The interrogator: the one who questions you and keeps their attention on responding to all of them, which provides them energy/attention.
3. The aloof person: the one who works uninterested so that you will is going to be pressured off attraction supply your own focus on them, racking your brains on what they are doing.
4. the indegent use: the person who tries to making other people feel guilt or sorry for her or him to acquire each other’s interest.
There are numerous extra types of ‘energy/attention taking’.
I’m hoping this has aided.
Best of luck in your learning adventures.
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